Below we have put together a list of helpful guidelines that suggest what children during different stages are likely doing and experiencing. Keep in mind that each child is unique and will develop at their own pace. However, if you think your child may be a bit behind in their milestones it is always a good idea to speak with your pediatrician. Early intervention is the best way to help our little one’s best be prepared to enter school as active learners.
Age
Milestones
0-3 months
Comfortable being held close and cuddled in arms
Learn to suck and swallow easily
Look at faces and watch expressions
Smile, coo, and gurgle
Move arms and legs easily
Move head from side to side while lying on tummy
Likes to be held during feeding and burped regularly
Takes naps that are 2-3 hours
3-6 months
Hold head upright without support
Prop themselves up on their arms
Look around at sounds and movements
Reach for, grasp, and bring toys from hand to hand
Roll from their backs to their tummies and vice versa
Babble, squeal, and laugh out loud
Play with their toes while on their backs
Look and play with their hands
6-9 months
Communicate with sounds, babbling, gestures
Prefer to be with familiar people rather than strangers
Sit without help while playing with toys
Takes two 2-3 hour naps a day
Bang objects to make noise
Move around on their tummies and push up on their hands and knees
Imitate sounds and body movements
Play give and take games with objects
Begin to eat solid foods
9-12 months
Play peek-a-boo
Creep or crawl
Wave bye-bye
Pick up tiny objects using their index fingers and thumbs
Can sit upright by themselves
Use their index finger to point or poke
Can feed themselves using fingers
Can put things in containers
Can pull themselves up to stand
Walk while holding onto things like furniture for support
Look at pictures
12-18 months
Use spoons to feed themselves
Transition from bottles to cups (with some spilling)
Stack toy blocks
Identify things by pointing to them or pictures of them
Climb chairs
Help you do things
Walk without help
Verbally ask for things like “cookie?”
Are messy
Scribble with crayons
Sometimes show off
Give hugs and kisses
18-24 months
Listen to short stories
Turn pages of book
Jump and run
Take off their shoes and socks
Communicate in fragmented sentences like “Casey needs doll”
Make simple choices – when offered “This book or that book?”
Imitate writing, coloring, or drawing strokes
Use inflection to ask questions
Walk up and down stairs with help
Copy the way other children play
Wash their own hands
Say their own names
2 years old
Walk and run well
Begin to throw, kick, and catch balls
Turn doorknobs and open lids
Have good thumb and finger control
Drink through straws
Can say their name and age
Do not understand sharing
3 years old
Walk up and downstairs alternating feet
Start learning how to use the toilet
Begin to scribble with pencil or crayon
Turn book pages one at a time
Sort objects by shape and color
Imitate adults and playmates
Understand concept of “mine,” “his,” and “hers”
Express a wide range of emotions
4 years old
Jump and stand on one foot up to five seconds
Walk up and down stairs without support
Use safety scissors
Draw circles and squares
Identify some colors
Understand the concept of counting
Cooperate with other children
Dress and undress themselves
5 years old
Hop and skip
Trace letters in books
Use forks or spoons
Speak sentences of more than five words
Recall names of objects or people
Draw, identify, and describe pictures
Initiate or join in play with other children and make up games
Resources
First 5 San Diego Healthy Development Services
Parent Support and Empowerment
Parent support groups, workshops, and classes and peer-to-peer connections for parents of children with special needs.
Developmental Services
Screening, assessment, and treatment of mild to moderate developmental delays and referrals to additional services as appropriate.
Speech and Language Services
Speech therapy for children with mild or moderate speech and language delays.
Behavioral Services
Counseling or other behavioral therapy to meet mild to moderate social and emotional needs of young children and their families.
YMCA Childcare Resource Service
San Diego Quality Preschool Initiative
Provides free referrals for childcare, subsidies for low income families, parent resources and workshops, as well as developmental and behavior health assessments for children.
SDQPI.org helps parents and providers understand what quality early care and education look like and find participating early care and education providers.